Ever find yourself in a position where you think something at the time but after you’ve had a moment of clarity then realise it wasn’t as bad as what you thought it was but by then you’ve done something you probably shouldn’t have? I’m having one of those moments.
Without going into too much detail, I wasn’t completely in the wrong but then again I could have handled the situation a bit better. On the plus side at least I didn’t swear or yell. These days I tend to go quiet, not saying too much. I know this is not the greatest of approaches and my communication skills need work.
The question is how to deal with the situation after the event, when I guess the damage has been done, can it even be fixed?
At some point I am going to have to bite the bullet and speak to this person to apologise for my part, but I only think it’s fair they take some of the responsibility too, sounds a bit like a cop out doesn’t it? We’ll see how things pan out.